Getting all dolled up is fun but also kind of stressful when there’s black-tie attire involved. Black-tie fashion implies a formal event, which comes with the pressure of dressing appropriately for said occasion.
“If you’re looking for inspiration, try reviewing a recent red carpet from a formal awards show like the Oscars or Grammys,” says Lauren Chan, model, entrepreneur and size-inclusion advocate. These red carpets are full of celebrities who find fresh ways to push the boundaries of traditional black-tie attire while still looking elegant and respectful. For example, this year’s red carpets saw trends like the peplum waist and corset dresses dominate women’s silhouettes, while velvet and sequins added textural elements.
Meanwhile, men on the red carpets opted out of following the strict dress code, with some forgoing said black-tie (and shirt) altogether and opting for daring, chest-baring looks. Others kept it classic with their clothes but mixed it up with their footwear, choosing patent boots or loafers. Of course, there were plenty of gents that followed the rules and looked dapper in bow ties and satin lapels too.
Whether you have a roster of black-tie weddings on the calendar, a super-fancy work event or an invitation to a ball (it could happen!), we’re here to guide you through the ins and outs of the black-tie dress code.
What is black-tie attire?
Black-tie attire is traditionally defined by formal evening wear. A “black-tie required” dress code used to be quite rigid, with men required to don tuxedos and bow ties and women expected to wear floor-length gowns. While these are still the default rules, there’s more room for nuance, especially if the invite says “black-tie preferred” or “black-tie optional.” These two directions mean that men can wear a dark suit instead of a tux, and women can wear a formal dress but it doesn’t necessarily have to be floor length.
“In my opinion, it’s always better to err on the side of being overdressed than underdressed. And it’s also important to keep the context of the event in mind,” celebrity stylist Ariel Tunnell says. “Is it a black-tie professional fundraiser? Best to stick to standard black tie. Is it an all-out destination wedding that’s the party of the year? If so, then you have a lot more freedom to interpret a formal dress code to fit your personality.”
Chan agrees that black-tie attire has broadened its scope. “In my opinion, strict dress codes are a thing of the past — as are antiquated, binary norms of what men and women can wear,” Chan says.?“When I see a ‘black-tie’ direction on an invitation, I simply interpret it as a reminder to dress with the utmost respect.” Of course, it’s recommended to check with the host if you have any questions about what’s appropriate to wear.
Now that you know the men’s style and women’s fashion guidelines of black-tie attire, here comes the fun part. Ahead, see 35 style expert-approved gowns, tuxedos, shoes and more to ensure you’ll be dressed to the nines for your next black-tie event.
Best black-tie dresses
Black-tie dresses under $250
Chicago-based stylist?Katie Schuppler loves this statement-making dress. Boasting a floral print, strapless neckline and drop waist, the romantic style would be great for a black-tie wedding.
Tux rentals are common practice for men, and occasionwear rentals are becoming more popular among women too. With Nuuly’s monthly subscription, you get to pick out six items per rental period. If your calendar is packed with weddings and formal events, you can easily cover your bases and try out a handful of black-tie dresses. This one-shoulder gown is by the brand Hutch and retails for $238, so you’d already be saving over 50% by renting with Nuuly.
“Azazie offers so many great gowns at affordable price points, with sizes ranging from zero to 30,” Tunnell says. This gown comes in Black and Blush Pink or Aloe Green and Pistachio. In addition to a generous size range, the company also offers free custom sizing on this style and others, where customers provide their measurements and get a dress made just for them.
If you want to shine but without sequins or glitter, this sleek metallic gown will do the trick. The silver slip-style dress is for the chic minimalist.
White is fair game unless you're attending a wedding, of course. New York-based stylist Jordanna Sharp loves the effortless look of a simple silk or even a stretchy jersey gown but asserts that it must be floor length, “otherwise it may not be smart enough.”
Chan recommends this elegant gown that features a square neckline and thigh-high slit. Black is appropriate for any formal event, and we also love the Red color for a standout option.
Black-tie dresses under $500
“Since many outfits for a black-tie event have details like sequins, beading or other embellishments that can make the outfit itchy or irritating to the skin, adding a lining on the inside of the outfit if it doesn’t already have one is a great way to ensure a more comfortable look,” Schuppler says. Thankfully, this one comes outfitted with a lining.
Combining two top trends from this year’s red carpets — a stunning shade of red and an off-the-shoulder neckline — this gorgeous dress comes from celebrity-loved designer Tadashi Shoji.
For your main-character moment, Schuppler picks this showstopper. The stunning gown will show off your curves with a corset bodice, asymmetrical neckline, sheer panel and subtle train.
“For an alternative to gowns, I?love Little Black Tux for women’s suiting,” Tunnell says. “They offer a huge range of colors and an inclusive size range of zero to 26.” This tuxedo jacket is tailored to flatter women’s curves while still looking classic. Pair it with slim fit or straight-leg tux pants to complete the set for under $300.
Black-tie shoes for women
Chan recommends these trendy heels that have an added flair — literally. The flared base of the heel provides some extra support for the mule sandal. “It’s extremely important for me to have easy-wearing shoes (it’s never worth the pain, people!) in order to be present and enjoy myself,” she says.
Schuppler recommends these 4-inch heels, which are surprisingly comfortable for the height. They make for a fun going-out shoe, thanks to the bedazzled, strappy design. The brand has them marked down 60% on its website.
While black is a safe bet, a neutral sandal or even a simple gold heel can be a versatile choice for your evening wear. Sharp recommends these gold leather heels from Gianvito Rossi.
These 3-inch platform heels are worth the investment, according to Tunnell. “The Larroude Dolly platform is so comfortable and will help the length of any gown,” she says, explaining that the extra height can help keep a long dress from dragging on the floor.
Go glam with these statement heels that Schuppler loves. A crystal-embellished bow with added tulle adds a touch of drama.
Evening bags for women
“Olga Berg offers a huge range of evening bags from classic to more fun and novelty styles, all priced right around $100,” Tunnell says.
Chan says you can’t go wrong with this customizable acrylic clutch. Every detail, from the color of the body to the text and font on the front, can be personalized as each bag is made to order.
Schuppler loves this chic and polished golden evening bag. You can even wear it as a wristlet.
One of Sharp’s picks, this simple satin evening bag is perfect for adding a pop of color to your black-tie ensemble.
Schuppler is also fan of Cult Gaia’s sculptural handbags. This decorative clutch from the brand embraces the glamour of pearls with shiny baubles outlining the silhouette.
Best black-tie tuxedos for men
Tuxedos under $500
The Black Tux has dozens of tux rentals to choose from, starting at $149. Tunnell says it’s a go-to for “all things affordable tuxedo” since the company has great rental options as well as the ability to purchase new suits and tuxes. “They have very modern cuts with great quality for the price,” the stylist adds.
Saks Off Fifth has an array of under-$500 tuxedos, including this one that Schuppler recommends. It’s from the luxury store’s own line and is made with wool woven in Italy for a high-quality feel.
For the style-minded gentleman, Chan says to go with this nontraditional tuxedo jacket. It features unique design details like a belted back and leather lapels and utility pockets. The oversized silhouette was designed to be unisex, so anyone can make the style their own.
Tuxedos under $1,000
For a cohesive look and an easy order, you can customize your black-tie outfit with Suitsupply, including all the accessories. Sharp is a fan of the brand’s timeless styles. Choose between a black or navy tuxedo jacket and trousers, three white shirt styles, two shoe options, plus a self- or pre-tied bow tie, cuff links and suspenders.
Recommended by Chan, this Italian wool tuxedo jacket has a two-button closure and peak lapels for a smart and classic look. The matching pants are $225.
When it comes to a tux that you’ll keep forever, you’ll want it to fit just right. That’s why Schuppler likes this classic tuxedo, which comes with Dillard’s free alterations at its retail locations.
For a classy alternative to the usual black, Schuppler points out this sleek tux. The slim cut is a bit more modern than a classic fit, streamlining the silhouette.
According to the experts, a three-piece suit is also appropriate for a black-tie dress code. This one comes with a straight-cut blazer, a satin-backed vest and slim-fit trousers.
Black-tie shoes for men
“I love these cap toe lace-ups from Magnanni,” Tunnell says. “They work with both tuxedos and suits and aren’t too pointy.”
Follow in the footsteps of stylish celebrities and opt for a Chelsea boot over a traditional dress shoe. The sophisticated style will differentiate you from the pack in the best way.
A practical choice that you can wear outside of your formal attire, Chan likes the look of these black leather oxfords.
Schuppler loves a dress loafer for men, a style often spotted on the red carpet. Sharp also says a loafer is great option if you’re looking to dress down a traditional tux. Slip into this minimalist patent style with a contrasting grosgrain band.
Black-tie accessories for men
Tunnell says that The Tie Bar is your one-stop shop for all the best men’s finishing touches. “Straight ties, pre-tied and self-tie bow ties, cuff links, pocket squares, socks, lapel pins and, of course, tie bars. They have it all,” she says.
Schuppler loves the quality of Brackish’s hand-crafted pocket squares. This one has polka-dotted guinea feathers for a unique touch.
Cuff links are a chance to show some personality. From a nod to your favorite team to a novelty design like these lions, don’t be afraid to make your cuff links a conversation starter.
For the minimalist, Sharp likes the look of these sleek cuff links. They’re available in Sterling Silver, Black Onyx and Black Mother of Pearl.
A quality tie is worth the splurge, especially when it’s in a versatile design like this monochrome jacquard silk that Schuppler recommends.
Don’t forget about a cummerbund — it’s a necessary component to a traditional black-tie outfit. This silk one that Chan likes will go with any tux in your closet, and it’s under $100.
Black-tie dress code for men
If you’re sticking to the classics, a black tuxedo jacket and trousers, bow tie, cummerbund and shoes, contrasting a crisp, white, collared button-down, comprise the blueprint of a black-tie dress code for men.
Can you wear a suit rather than a tuxedo to a black-tie event?
The style experts agreed that men can typically get away with wearing a black suit and bow tie or necktie for a black-tie event. (“To be honest, most folks can’t tell the difference between a tuxedo and a suit!” Chan says.)
Sticking to black will help a suit blend into the dress code. The important part is making sure your suit is formal enough for the occasion. Stick to wool suiting rather than a material that appears relaxed and casual, like linen.
Black-tie dress code for women
“When it comes to [black-tie] silhouettes, floor length is your safest bet,” Tunnell says, with fashion and jewelry designer?Carla Rockmore and Schuppler agreeing. “And be mindful of the size of the skirt. Ball gowns and trains are gorgeous but not if people are going to be stepping on your dress all night!” Tunnell also says midi and tea-length dresses may be appropriate depending on the occasion.
The style experts noted that a well-tailored tux or suit on a woman can also abide by the formal black-tie rules, if dresses aren’t your thing.
What is the best color to wear to a black-tie event?
According to the style experts, your color palette for the event is up to you unless it’s explicitly stated on the invitation.
“Traditional black-tie dress code tends to evoke classic colors in formal wear: black, white, ivory, navy, red, etcetera,” Tunnell says. “Modern black tie has evolved to include a range of colors and even patterns. It’s always important to keep the context of the event in mind.”
Rockmore?encourages a more vibrant palette. “Black tie does not have to mean a black dress. Wear color for a change!” Schuppler and Sharp?also think going for something eye-catching and glitzy, with adornments like sequins and beading, is fair game.
Chan, on the other hand, thinks it’s best to take moderate approach. “I interpret ‘black tie’ as a sign of being respectful to the event, hosts and honorees, and outshining them is generally a no-no, as is being distracting from the cause/organization,” Chan says.
What is the difference between black tie and white tie?
“Black tie is what most people consider formal wear: dressy weddings, work or charity galas, awards shows, etcetera,” Tunnell says. “White tie is much less common and is reserved for the dressiest of events. Think royal affairs, state dinners and presidential galas. White tie is the most formal dress code, and it’s also the most elegant and sophisticated with more rules than a black-tie event.”
For example, a classic tuxedo won’t cut it for men. Instead, they’re required to wear an evening tailcoat and high-waisted trousers. And the bow tie must be white. For women, don’t even think about showing the ankles. The gown must be floor length, and even better if it’s a ball gown.
